Wednesday, November 5, 2008

The Desire of Woman (Genesis 3:16)

The desire that the woman has for her husband, according to John Gill, “is to be understood of her being solely at the will and pleasure of her husband; that whatever she desired should be referred to him, whether she should have her desire or not, or the thing she desired; it should be liable to be controlled by his will, which must determine it, and to which she must be subject.” Quite simply, this statement communicates a position of subjection from the woman to her husband. It would seem that because the woman did not refer the matter of the fruit of the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil to her husband (who failed as well as he was there with her and did nothing), she was punished by means of further subjection to her husband who would thus rule over her.
Matthew Henry agrees with this position, but he also adds an important point about the response of wives to this subjection. He states, “The whole [female] sex, which by creation was equal with man, is, for sin, made inferior, and forbidden to usurp authority, 1 Tim. 2:11, 12. The wife particularly is hereby put under the dominion of her husband, and is not sui juris—at her own disposal, of which see an instance in that law, Num. 30:6-8, where the husband is empowered, if he please, to disannul the vows made by the wife…Those wives who not only despise and disobey their husbands, but domineer over them, do not consider that they not only violate a divine law, but thwart a divine sentence [emphasis in original].” Henry hints at the fact that while the desires of a woman are subjected to the authority of her husband in the bonds of marriage, the desire itself is not necessarily to subject herself but rather to attempt to rule over her husband. This seems reasonable as the Scripture reiterates that in spite of this desire, the husband will rule over his wife.
This brings us to the comments of John MacArthur. Regarding the desire of woman, MacArthur has this to say: “Sin has turned the harmonious system of God-ordained roles into distasteful struggles of self-will. Lifelong companions, husbands and wives, will need God’s help in getting along as a result. The woman’s desire will be to lord it over her husband, but the husband will rule by divine design (Eph 5:22-25). This interpretation of the curse is based upon the identical Heb. words and grammar being used in 4:7 (see note there) to show the conflict man will have with sin as it seeks to rule him [emphasis in original].” While MacArthur concurs with the conclusions of Gill and Henry, he further demonstrates the intent of the Hebrew language which, perhaps, is lost a bit in translation. In Genesis 4:7, God is telling Cain that doing well lifts his countenance, while not doing well leads to mastery by sin. The same English words “desire is for” are used in both Genesis 3:16 and 4:7. Understanding the Hebrew helps the reader to comprehend that the desire of the wife for her husband is the same as the desire of sin for Cain: To master him. Just as the husband will yet rule over the wife in spite of her desire, so God exhorts Cain to master the sin which desires him.
Finally, in answer to the question of what the desire of woman refers, it is the want of mastery over her husband, which is yet subjected to his headship given by created order and divine decree, and exacerbated by the judgment of The Fall.

Gill, John. "Commentary on Genesis 3:16". "The New John Gill Exposition of the Entire
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Henry, Matthew. "Complete Commentary on Genesis 3". "Matthew Henry Complete
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MacArthur, John F. The MacArthur Study Bible. Thomas Nelson: La Habra, 2006.


Perry said...

You make the same mistake that so many others have made. And just because so many make the same mistake over and over does not make it right.
John Gill's exposition is right on the money. MacArthur takes the lazy way out and parrots the same old error. He uses Gen 4:7 to interpret 3:16. But he is wrong on 4:7 so therein lies the problem. He is using a bad interpretation of one to further confuse the meaning of another.
The "sin" is not what has
his desire for Cain. It is Abel that is being referenced and this is in regards to the position of Cain as the firstborn.
The sin in that passage simply means "sin offering", hence, a lamb would be waiting outside the door to be the perfect sacrifice. Christ was later said to be made sin (a sin offering) for sinners. He was the Lamb of God.

Josh said...

Thank you for your response, Perry, however your comments are completely out of context. It makes no sense to say that sin here should be translated as "sin offering" (although the semantic range allows for such a rendering). If what you say is true, and it is a sin offering looking forward to the ultimate sacrifice of Christ upon the Cross, then God is telling Cain that he must master the atonement, although its benefits do desire him. In fact, the desire spoken of here means one of three things: a woman's desire for a man; a man's desire for a woman; or a beast's desire to devour. It is you, sir, who are mistaken.